November 2019 Knowledge Newsletter
Millions of people have been abused. Statics are not accurate as much abuse is never reported. Never the less, if you have been abuse din any manner the scars of that abuse remain with you forever and affect all your relationships for the rest of your life.
The Scars of Abuse
Abuse can come in many forms mental where you are criticized and belittled, emotional where you are neglected and unloved, sexual where you are raped or touched without your consent, and physically where you are beaten, not provided with the necessities of life like food, shelter, clothing, etc.
Regardless of the form or forms of abuse you experienced, you are left feeling like a victim, disempowered, unloved and not honored.
Unfortunately, if the only form of love you experienced is abusive, you will attract abusers into your life as partners as that is the only form of love you understand and will remain in abusive relationships in the hope of getting love. If you were abused as a child, frequently you will be abusive parent as again that was the only role model you experienced. Abuse if often a generational experience. Some thinking if it was good enough for me it will be good enough for my children.
In some families, older children will try to protect younger children from sexual or physical abuse. In some families only the boys or girls get abused depending the type of abuse such as rape and the sexual preferences of the abuser. Even through the abuser seems to be the strong one, they too are disempowered because would an empowered person need to abuse anyone.
The Me-Too movement has brought a lot of sexual abuse into the forefront especially in the corporate and entertainment industry sending the message that it is no longer acceptable for people in positions of power to take advantage of others sexually and get away with it. We need to admire those who had the courage to come forward and report their abuse by these powerful people.
Growing up feeling disempowered or like a victim leaves you feeling vulnerable in life – always expecting the worse to happen. The lesson of abusers is to become empowered, to become strong, to learn to say no. It is not an easy task but it is one that is possible. I have been abused both physically and sexually in my life and have learnt to overcome those feelings of feeling unloved and disempowered so I know from my personal experience that this is possible but not easy. It has taken me many years. That is why I wrote a book about love and how important learning to love yourself is as that is the key to empowering yourself.
The advantages to becoming empowered is that you learn to forgive yourself and your abuser thus freeing yourself and them. You are able to let go of your anger and fear. You stop attracting people into your life who will continue to abuse you. You have the strength to walk away from abusive situation with your head held high.
If you have difficulty understanding why you were abused or how to become empowered, please feel free to contact me. I am available for personal, telephone or readings over Skype, relationship coaching at any time by clicking on www.sharoncheney.com or calling me at 505 474-6363 or 514 312-2451.
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